Who We Are
Real Talk. Real Marriage. Real Growth.
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Marriage • Family • Men • Women
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We’ve been on this journey of discovering What Really Matters for over 35 years—learning through the mess, the beauty, the breakthroughs, and the hard lessons. We keep it honest, we keep it biblical, and we keep it practical. Whether it’s marriage, parenting, or personal growth, we’ve learned that different seasons call for different tools. And we’re here to help you find the ones that actually work.
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We’re certified Prepare-Enrich and SYMBIS marriage facilitators, but more importantly—we’re real people who’ve walked through some real stuff and lived to tell the story.
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Back in 1989, a mutual friend introduced us, and just seven months later—we got married. Fast forward to today, and we’re still learning, still growing. But it wasn’t always pretty. Our marriage started in brokenness. I (Michelle) brought wounds from a past marriage into our new relationship, and those early years were hard. We loved each other deeply, but we didn’t know how to love each other well. Todd used to say, “Divorce is not an option,” and that became our anchor. But we had to humble ourselves, seek out truth, and let God heal what we couldn’t fix on our own.
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That journey lit a fire in us to help others. We know how hard it is to find solid, affordable support that’s both spiritual and practical. That’s why we do what we do.
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What We Offer:
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Marriage & Family Coaching
We work as a team to help couples communicate better, fight fair, parent with purpose, and reconnect emotionally and spiritually. Whether you’re newlyweds, in a rough patch, or just want to grow stronger, we’re here for it.
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Men’s Coaching (Young Men Rising)
Todd leads bold, Bible-based coaching that’s straight to the point—helping men rise up into their calling, build good habits, break generational cycles, and become leaders in their homes, work, and faith.
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Women’s Coaching (She Rebuilds)
Michelle walks with women through identity, healing, and calling. From biblical femininity and inner strength to being a wife, mom, or leader—she helps women rise with grace and purpose.
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Why We Do This
Because we’ve lived it. Because we’ve seen what God can do with two broken people who say yes to Him. And because we believe that when individuals get healthy, marriages get stronger—and when marriages get stronger, families change, legacies change, and the Kingdom advances. So whether you're here for marriage support, personal growth, or to find a community of people who want more than surface-level faith—we’re glad you found us.
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Michelle Wyatt
Wife. Mom. Coach. Mentor. Ministry Leader.
​​Michelle Wyatt has always believed her greatest calling was to be a wife and mother—and for nearly four decades, she’s lived that calling with faith, intentionality, and purpose. Over the years, she’s served in various church ministries, from children’s and youth to women’s leadership. Her heart has always been to help people grow—especially women and families.
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After raising her children, Michelle joined her husband Todd in their architectural business, while continuing to invest in ministry. As time went on, she felt a deep pull to come alongside women in a more personal way. That passion gave birth to her coaching work, where she helps women walk in their God-given identity, strengthen their marriages, and embrace biblical womanhood with strength and grace.
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Together, she and Todd founded What Really Matters, a marriage and family-focused ministry grounded in real-life experience and practical wisdom. They are both SYMBIS and Prepare-Enrich certified relationship facilitators and currently lead a WRM couples small group and the young adults ministry at The Ark Fellowship. Whether mentoring one-on-one, speaking to a room full of women, or volunteering behind the scenes, Michelle’s mission is the same—pointing people to Jesus and helping them build homes and lives that last.
Todd Wyatt
Architect. Husband. Coach. Mentor. Ministry Leader.
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Todd Wyatt is a partner at Lancaster+Wyatt Architects, L.L.P., located just outside Houston, where he brings vision to life through design—especially for churches and ministry spaces. He holds a Master of Architecture from the University of Houston, with a minor in psychology, blending creativity and insight in all that he does.
But Todd’s true foundation is his faith. After meeting Michelle, he encountered the gospel in a real way and gave his life to Christ. That decision changed everything. Since then, Todd has been deeply involved in ministry—serving in children’s programs (including many unforgettable Pinewood Derby races with Royal Rangers), mentoring young men, and building community through honest, faith-filled conversation.
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Todd has a passion for helping men grow in leadership, purpose, and biblical masculinity. He walks alongside husbands, fathers, and young men through one-on-one coaching and group mentoring, helping them discover who they are in Christ and how to lead with strength and integrity.
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Together, he and Michelle lead What Really Matters, a relationship and family coaching ministry they founded after a late-night heart-to-heart on a trip to San Antonio. They realized how powerful it was to simply talk about the real stuff—what actually matters in marriage, family, and life.
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Todd and Michelle are both SYMBIS and Prepare-Enrich certified facilitators. Today, Todd helps lead their WRM couples group and invests in the next generation through men’s life coaching and the young adults ministry at The Ark Fellowship. He’s passionate about helping men show up with purpose—in their homes, their churches, and their communities.